I know it sounds insensitive but this is a site for weight loss. Have you considered seeing a counselor / therapist? There are ways to get an earlier appointment if you talk to an omnbusman at the hospital that serves you or ask for an alternative doctor. Good luck.
2024年 01月 14日 投稿者: Stengle1952
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Stengle your comment is indeed insensitive. Weight issues often go hand in hand with psychiatric issues whether it be with food fixation or external stressors effecting our decisions. If it bothers you move on dont be unkind.
2024年 01月 14日 投稿者: Yearofhealth2023
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I'm sorry you are going through this. I can relate to the stress of young kids behaving badly. I was a stay at home mom with boy/girl twins that would fight over every stupid thing. The only good thing for you is he is old enough for school. I was so happy when my kids started school. I love my kids but never getting a break from the arguing was bad for me. I think staying home with kids is very hard.
2024年 01月 14日 投稿者: Sara7200
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You are in my thoughts and prayers.
2024年 01月 14日 投稿者: Laurie62707
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I am sorry you are going through this. You are doing the right thing by prioritizing your mental health first. One step in front of the other.
2024年 01月 14日 投稿者: Sharon Meetsma
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I'm so sorry Debbie! You go over and above for your family. Sometimes to your detriment. Hugs! Hope you can get in to see a therapist quickly.
2024年 01月 14日 投稿者: rhontique
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For more than 1 year you have been my inspiration, Debbie. I followed every post and story. Keep on showing up for yourself
2024年 01月 15日 投稿者: NikkiOli
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my prayers are with you Debbie.
2024年 01月 15日 投稿者: buenitabishop
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Thank you everyone for your kind words, hugs and prayers! I’m going to make those self-help calls as soon as the offices open.
2024年 01月 15日 投稿者: Debbie Cousins
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Debbie, is your Grandson with you cause your daughter is working? Maybe, there need to be some boundries. My sister has her own apartment in her daughter's home. Her granddaughters have been told that visiting MiMi is just like when she lived in her own house. They pop in for a visit, but not every day.
2024年 01月 15日 投稿者: SherryeB
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Stengel you are very insensitive-her current issues is having an affect on her weight loss
2024年 01月 15日 投稿者: tiffany1908
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🙏🙏🙏 that you find the help you need. You need to take some time for yourself and do something fun💗
2024年 01月 15日 投稿者: dnugent876
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Stengle, this is a site to discuss all aspects of our lives and not everyone is here for weight loss. All aspects of our lives affect weight loss and weight gain and emotions are the leading cause of eating disorders. Debbie is using this site exactly the way it is intended and it sure sounds like she's trying to head in the right direction. I am very proud of her.
2024年 01月 15日 投稿者: JamesOHarris
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Maybe your child needs to find other childcare for her/his child for w while. This sounds like too much for one person to handle. The child may need professional help. Hugs. Prayers sent for you.
2024年 01月 15日 投稿者: -MorticiaAddams
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prayers for you and morticia is right maybe your child needs to find someone who can help take care of the child so you can get a break before you end up not being able to cope with doing it and then he or she would be stuck with finding someone else to babysit your grandchild anyway..I'm praying for you and your family
2024年 01月 15日 投稿者: SaraRiley
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I’m praying for you. It sounds like you have compassion fatigue. You give so much love and attention to your family which is so lovely, but you are feeling the effects of neglecting yourself. It’s okay to ask for help with your grandson or take a break while you refuel. Your physical health and mental well being symptoms are a warning sign that it’s time to stop your current course. I’m sending compassion and love through prayer that you will feel God’s peace and direction. 🙏🏼💕
2024年 01月 15日 投稿者: shanekwa
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I am so sorry Debbie <3 I have been away from this site in awhile so I haven't kept up with you. Please know I am thinking of you, sending prayers and positive energy your way. Do you have any support groups in your area? We have one at our church. Take care of you.
2024年 01月 15日 投稿者: JMA312
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One thing I have learned (and still struggle with) is the concept IF I don't take care of myself I really can't help anyone else.
2024年 01月 15日 投稿者: cawildflowr
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I take a lot of supplements that help me deal with stress. Chief among them is A LOT of Stress B complex vitamins. Give them to the kid, too!
2024年 01月 15日 投稿者: Su Zen
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Sorry you are going thru this and I echo some of the responses about if it is possible to not take care of your grandson or can you cut it back some. I know that may not be possible and there are a lot of grandparents who are the sitters or care takers. I never wanted that role as I wanted the joy of being a grandparent but that is not always possible I know. My heart goes out to you.
2024年 01月 15日 投稿者: Redporchlady
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