Finally went out to dinner alone and tried not to be ashamed of my appetite. It was pretty unsuccessful. It was restaurant week so no tables available and I got stuck eating at the bar where people see every bite you eat while they have cocktails. 😑

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I don’t see anything to be ashamed of. People generally don’t watch strangers eat (unless they are really weird, and have issues of their own). Just looks like a great meal to me👍. 
2022年 07月 25日 投稿者: are1981
Unless you are a celebrity or a famous competitive eater, I’m sure people have better things to do than to pay attention to what you eat 
2022年 07月 25日 投稿者: Supergainz1
have a couple cocktails yourself and you just won't care what they think!😁 
2022年 07月 25日 投稿者: jackiemoore71467
I've traveled for work, alone, and the bar is a great place to eat like Erq said. Own it, enjoy it. A delicious meal deserves to be enjoyed just as you deserve to enjoy that delicious meal! :-) 
2022年 07月 25日 投稿者: LivinBreezy
They are probably wondering how you can eat all that and stay so thin! You seem unhappy with your weight, but your current weight is my ultimate goal weight, lol. If you can go rock climbing, you are at least fairly healthy/fit. You are empowered to make changes, but don't assume the rest of the world is looking down on you for your weight/appetite. I think you are your own harshest critic. 
2022年 07月 25日 投稿者: zapotz
Food envy, that’s all it is . Trust me , eat , live , love , be happy 🍾🍾🍾🍾🍾 
2022年 07月 25日 投稿者: ocean_girl
People only notice the extremes. Curiosity about the painfully thin or morbidly obese patron and what they eat might make conversation, but otherwise no will pay attention to you. And this coming from someone who traveled alone for work extensively for 4 years. It is more important that YOU are paying attention to how much (and why) you are consuming. 
2022年 07月 25日 投稿者: JustBananas
@are: believe me people in Manhattan watch you eat and watch what you eat when you’re sitting near them. And it’s not necessarily because of how much but curious what you’re having and what they might order. The rest is just me feeling fat and self conscious that people are thinking you’re eating that and why you’re fat.  
2022年 07月 25日 投稿者: p$m
@erq normally in a non cramped bar it’s a great place to eat alone. But in this occasion it was elbow to elbow since it was restaurant week in Manhattan. The bartender had no time to spend talking to me. Even the guy sitting next to me ended up not ordering because he sat there for almost an hour and couldn’t get service. It was packed. Not an ideal situation for a self conscious eater like me. I should have known better. Living in NY hot spots get hotter during this week.  
2022年 07月 25日 投稿者: p$m
@jackie: 😆 I’ll do that next time. A glass of wine or 2 would have went well with that 22oz bone in rib eye and my hen of the woods side order! 
2022年 07月 25日 投稿者: p$m
@liv: I did enjoy it. It’s been a while since I’ve gone out because of covid. I eat out a lot alone before covid but I always got a table and out in my headphones and listened to a podcast or even watch something on my phone. It didn’t feel so appropriate at the bar.  
2022年 07月 25日 投稿者: p$m
@zapo : thanks. I am my own worse critic but I guess it’s also partially because I know what I use to be and now am not.  
2022年 07月 25日 投稿者: p$m
@ocean: it was delicious. 22oz 1855 aged angus steak Bone in ribeye medium rare, hen of the woods side order, pop up bread at BLT Prime on Lexington Ave NYC. Highly recommend it! 
2022年 07月 25日 投稿者: p$m
@just: yes they do mostly notice the extreme but my meal admittedly was an extreme. I think it’s typically meant for 2 but they didn’t make the cut smaller for one so I had to get it. I don’t eat out often so when I do I do it hard. Lolll  
2022年 07月 25日 投稿者: p$m
Did not realize you live in NYC, so that explains a lot (I live at the beach in SoCal -- same thing about being weight-conscious). The only big people I see in restaurants in my neighborhood are out-of-towners, and it's usually a whole (obese) family strolling in with different hairstyles, clothes, and accents. But I'm still more interested in what/how much I'm ordering and eating than other people. If you are feeling a little ashamed about what you ate, that's a positive thing in your weight loss journey; you see your own red flags, whereas perhaps before you just saw that meal as normal. 
2022年 07月 25日 投稿者: JustBananas
I am glad you enjoyed it. People need to get a life if they worry about what you're eating or how much. I think there is subtle societal shaming of single people who have the nerve to enjoy their own company and dine out alone. Try to shake it off and f them. Just my humble opinion.  
2022年 07月 25日 投稿者: jengetfit123
PS: For some reason, 'Hen of the Woods' is my favorite mushroom name -- and it is a fairly crowded field! 
2022年 07月 25日 投稿者: jengetfit123
@jen: it’s my first time having this mushroom. It was delicious though they made it a bit oily.  
2022年 07月 25日 投稿者: p$m
@just: oh yeah I have to admit Cali is worse than NY. My cousin lives there and I’ve heard her judging whispers in the past when I was actually 20lbs thinner.  
2022年 07月 25日 投稿者: p$m

     
 

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