kaylinreneeの日記, 2023年 07月 18日

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has time to text and harass me but when i asked for the Zelle payment, i get "I'm in a traumatic orthopedic reconstructive floor at upmc . I can't do anything " 🤣 the narcissism is strong with this one. woe is him 🙃 poor guy. i feel awful 🙄 

I hope he pays up soon.  

morticia i dont even need the money. its the principle.  

Idk... 55 bucks will get you a delicious steak dinner 😏 

It’ll get me an all I can eat seafood boil 🤤 

ahww cheese im so sorry.... i understand. they know im a pushover but im done. surely im a monster for it but whatever. monster mama it is! 

oh super thats a great point...and dessert! 

Yes leave it to me to think about foods 😏 

If your ex is a narcissist, why leave your kid there longer then need be? Kids should not be pawns when the other parent owes money. 

sirick- you're right. ill dm you his number and you can tell him that. because hes been using my kids against me since he left. 😘 hes in the hospital and my kids are with his parents. safe and sound.  

also he has 50/50. so. legally speaking i have no choice. that's how divorce and legal custody agreements work. haha i cant just keep them. but i appreciate the uneducated insight as to how to go about parenting.  

Custody issues suck! I am only 2 years away from ending the battle. Total cost: over $400k.  

oh gosh TUD I'm so sorry to hear. thats 1 expensive battle!  

Yes that is very sorry. To think if both sides were civil, both clauses would be 400k richer 

my ex spent 50k because he thought id fight him, but i had told him numerous times id make it easy so long as he got the eff out of my house. 🤷‍♀️ I'm sure he'd say hes the victim if you asked lol cheaters are the best manipulators  

I only wanted 50/50. However, in Florida, that is a stretch for the fathers. It's a shame. There are so many absent fathers. Why destroy the good ones?  

tud thats really unfortunate. PA used to be like thay but now, they are very hard pressed to NOT give 50/50. It sucks because i was the primary caretaker but fighting it would cost me a lot, to simply lose. Thankfully he lives with his mom&step dad so he has a lotttt of help 

I’m with you on that tud. Seems like it’s always the opposite. The dads that don’t want anything to do with their kids the wife push for them to see their kids and the ones that do wants to see them the wife push for them to not see their kids. It’s crazy. I know a few guys that has to fight to get shared custody also  

the system definitely isn't fair